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Check the items you have completed then print out the list to check newly completed items later by hand.

 

TWELVE MONTHS (or more) before the wedding:

Decide on wedding date

Contract a consultant (if you are using one)

Decide on size/style of wedding

Work out budget with those who are paying

Decide on a wedding style and color scheme

Compile guest list

Reserve sites for the ceremony and reception

Arrange outside catering if it isn't provided at the reception site

Reserve officiant for the ceremony

Attend a bridal show for ideas

 

6-12 MONTHS:

Choose bridesmaids and other attendants

Arrange purchase/hire/making of bridal gown and veil

Order attendants' outfits and accessories

Order mothers' dresses

Select and schedule meetings with:

Officiant

Coordinators for ceremony and reception sites

Caterer

Organist, musicians and vocalists

Reception entertainment

Florist

Photographer

Videographer

Order the wedding cake

Reserve a site for the rehearsal dinner

Plan the honeymoon

Plan your new home

 

THREE TO SIX MONTHS:

Finalize guest list

Order printing of invitations, other stationery

Prepare text of service sheet and arrange printing

Finalize reception details with caterer

Choose and reserve tuxedos

Pre-shop & finalize gift registry selections (or at least one month before your first shower)

Book bridal suite for wedding night

Make reservations for honeymoon

Arrange transportation for the wedding party

Select and order wedding ring(s)

Have first fitting of wedding gown

Consult lawyer on marriage contract, wills

Meet with consultant with regard to life insurance and coverage for new home

Block rooms at nearby hotels for out-of-town guests

 

TWO - THREE MONTHS:

Address invitations and announcements, send out 6-8 weeks before wedding

Make appointment with hairdresser

Organize visas/passports for honeymoon, if needed

Choose going-away outfit, purchase honeymoon clothing

Select wedding album and guest books

Order cake knife, garter, ring pillow, etc.

Arrange method of recording gifts as they arrive

Check with and finalize arrangements for:

Officiant

Ceremony site

Reception site

Caterer

Florist

Photographer

Videographer

Bakery (Wedding cake)

Organist

Vocalist

Rehearsal dinner

Reception entertainment

Honeymoon

Plan bridesmaid's luncheon, groomsmen's party

Schedule final dress fitting

Check on marriage license requirements

Pick up rings

 

ONE MONTH:

Finalize arrangements for new home

Make hairdresser appointment

Record replies to invitations

Record gifts, promptly mail out thank-you notes

Check apparel for whole bridal party

Purchase gifts for bride/groom and attendants

 

TWO WEEKS:

Double check with all contracted services

Pick up marriage license

Arrange seating plan and place cards for reception

Arrange name changes on bank accounts, licenses, etc.

 

ONE WEEK:

Phone those who have not responded to your invitation

Provide the caterer with the final guest count

Pack for your honeymoon

Pick up honeymoon tickets, traveler's checks, etc.

Pick up wedding gown and attendants' outfits, store properly

Break in your wedding shoes at home

Have a trial run with hairdresser (with actual headwear)

Continue to record and acknowledge gifts

 

THE DAY BEFORE:

Pick up tuxedos

Hold wedding rehearsal

Give rehearsal dinner

Double check that you've packed everything needed for your honeymoon

 

THE WEDDING DAY!:

Have your hair done

Dress for the ceremony - allow two hours

Have initial photographs taken - alone, with parents, with bridesmaid(s), at least one hour before ceremony.

Do you have:

The rings?

The officiant's fee?

Payment for other contracted services?

Marriage license?

Snacks? (it may be a long time before you get to eat again!)